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Single Again For The First Time 20: 20 Things To Know About Divorce

The “Single Again For The First Time” podcast series was devised by me a year ago for two reasons: (1) I wanted to help, in a small way, to draw a road map for those who are approaching, experiencing or … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 18: Anniversaries

The major difference between death and a divorce is, in the latter case, one is obliged to carry around the tombstone. It was in November 2011, immediately following my wife and I visiting my family in New Mexico, that I … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 17: Well That Happened

A self-assessment of the summer and fall so far, including writing, home improvement (pretty flowers!), dating (and an interesting discussion about men and women v. men v. women) and the occasional nightmare featuring an avatar from Second Life flying above … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 14: My Life As A Woman

This is not about cross-dressing, let me be clear on that. Instead, this is a more personal story about one of the factors that helped devolve my marriage into the worst period of my life: the video game Second Life. … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 12: Needles

Why do exes passive-aggressively needle each other when they’re no longer partners? I did it, my ex did it, and if you’re an ex yourself, you’ve probably done it. Considering the vast and impressive results that needling simply and utterly … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 7: Permanence

For my 7th podcast, after a shout-out to those who subscribe to the Council of Nicea, I delve into putting the kibosh on a short dating excursion, which, despite the fact that I don’t regret the decision, was impactful.  I … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 6: Kicking My Own Ass

Love and forgiveness were the two elements I knew I needed in order to move beyond the  death rattle of my marriage, and they were two elements I resisted.  I could not say it felt good to walk around feeling … Continue reading

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