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Single Again For The First Time 20: 20 Things To Know About Divorce

The “Single Again For The First Time” podcast series was devised by me a year ago for two reasons: (1) I wanted to help, in a small way, to draw a road map for those who are approaching, experiencing or … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 18: Anniversaries

The major difference between death and a divorce is, in the latter case, one is obliged to carry around the tombstone. It was in November 2011, immediately following my wife and I visiting my family in New Mexico, that I … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 15: Divorciverssary

“I’m going to start doing things for me!” So read my ex-wife’s Twitter post back in early 2012. Considering that our cohabitation, marriage and house were all her initiatives, I always had a bit of trouble with that particular Tweet … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 14: My Life As A Woman

This is not about cross-dressing, let me be clear on that. Instead, this is a more personal story about one of the factors that helped devolve my marriage into the worst period of my life: the video game Second Life. … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 13: Friends Like These

Published on May 12, 2013 One of the things rarely examined in the wake of a divorce and/or end of a very important relationship is the roles our friends play in our lives. Yet those roles, or rather our perception, understanding … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 12: Needles

Why do exes passive-aggressively needle each other when they’re no longer partners? I did it, my ex did it, and if you’re an ex yourself, you’ve probably done it. Considering the vast and impressive results that needling simply and utterly … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 8: Black Hole

In my 8th podcast, I describe how I found out that there was an impostor profile on OKCupid that lifted some of my images and purported, basically, to be me.  While dealing with that profile was pretty easy, the black … Continue reading

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