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Excerpt From an Unwritten Autobiography: First Move

The picture here is of the house that I grew up in, in the sleepy Mayberry-esque hamlet of Morris, Illinois, some seventy miles southwest and some twenty years behind Chicago. Of Morris, some short remarks can be made to illustrate the … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 20: 20 Things To Know About Divorce

The “Single Again For The First Time” podcast series was devised by me a year ago for two reasons: (1) I wanted to help, in a small way, to draw a road map for those who are approaching, experiencing or … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 19: The Tear In Review

For the final podcast in the ‘Single Again’ series for the year, I just decided to switch the camera on and talk of coffee cups and Christmas cards.   For the latter, I was quite happy that I got around … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 16: Broken

Ah, defense mechanisms!  You sexy beasts! We all have various defense mechanisms that, over time, are used proactively to protect ourselves from the world.  The question is: how big a role do those defense mechanisms eventually play in how we … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 15: Divorciverssary

“I’m going to start doing things for me!” So read my ex-wife’s Twitter post back in early 2012. Considering that our cohabitation, marriage and house were all her initiatives, I always had a bit of trouble with that particular Tweet … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 14: My Life As A Woman

This is not about cross-dressing, let me be clear on that. Instead, this is a more personal story about one of the factors that helped devolve my marriage into the worst period of my life: the video game Second Life. … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 13: Friends Like These

Published on May 12, 2013 One of the things rarely examined in the wake of a divorce and/or end of a very important relationship is the roles our friends play in our lives. Yet those roles, or rather our perception, understanding … Continue reading

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