Category Archives: Podcasts

Single Again For The First Time 20: 20 Things To Know About Divorce

The “Single Again For The First Time” podcast series was devised by me a year ago for two reasons: (1) I wanted to help, in a small way, to draw a road map for those who are approaching, experiencing or … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 19: The Tear In Review

For the final podcast in the ‘Single Again’ series for the year, I just decided to switch the camera on and talk of coffee cups and Christmas cards.   For the latter, I was quite happy that I got around … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 18: Anniversaries

The major difference between death and a divorce is, in the latter case, one is obliged to carry around the tombstone. It was in November 2011, immediately following my wife and I visiting my family in New Mexico, that I … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 17: Well That Happened

A self-assessment of the summer and fall so far, including writing, home improvement (pretty flowers!), dating (and an interesting discussion about men and women v. men v. women) and the occasional nightmare featuring an avatar from Second Life flying above … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 16: Broken

Ah, defense mechanisms!  You sexy beasts! We all have various defense mechanisms that, over time, are used proactively to protect ourselves from the world.  The question is: how big a role do those defense mechanisms eventually play in how we … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 15: Divorciverssary

“I’m going to start doing things for me!” So read my ex-wife’s Twitter post back in early 2012. Considering that our cohabitation, marriage and house were all her initiatives, I always had a bit of trouble with that particular Tweet … Continue reading

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Single Again For The First Time 14: My Life As A Woman

This is not about cross-dressing, let me be clear on that. Instead, this is a more personal story about one of the factors that helped devolve my marriage into the worst period of my life: the video game Second Life. … Continue reading

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